How to win friends and influence

How to win friends and influence People

Six ways to make people like you.

1. Become genuinely interested in other people.
"Do this and you will be welcome anywhere"
"You can make more friends in 2 months by becoming interested with others
"Ask questions to other people"

To be known or trying to be known you need to be friendly and outgoing. You also need to be out there such as me i think i am a person who can talk to anybody. I could be shy,but it wont stop me from me trying to get to know so one. Also, say that there was a new girl and she didn't talk to know one i would step up and talk to her to make her feel welcome. For me its easy to start a conversation and making people laugh. Also, it always a good thing to make people feel like they can trust you when they need a hand. There are many personalities out there and i could talk to any one i dont judge. I think everyone deserves to be themselves not someone there trying to be just to fit in. So many people are different and have in common or may not have lots in common. Throughout my life  experiences  i have met many personalities that i genuinely enjoy meeting new people and getting to know them. It is a good feeling meeting new people because then they can also be there for you when you need them. 

 This picture is telling us that we have lots in common with other people around the world that may be some ups or downs but we stay united with one another.

Quote: "People just need to see others for what they are, They need to stop thinking , there is an agenda behind everything". 

Reflection: I think that this quote is saying that do not judge nor assume how people are you need to walk on there shoes for you to understand what they are going through.

2.Smile 

" Actions speak louder then words"

"You dont feel like smiling , Then force yourself to smile"

"IT creates happiness in homes , fosters good will in business and is countersign of friends".

Just by a smile brings many people happy. It also shows your mood which it would be a happy attitudes and it may be helpful for others as well cause everyone deserves to smile. A smile can do alot to just one person. For instance, say your very close friend is having a bad day and you try your hardest just to see her happy and you want her/him to have a wide open smile. Also, when your feeling blue the best thing to do is to talk it out with someone you trust and make sure to have a laugh and to forget whats going through your mind with negative thoughts. If your walking by and people stare at you its polite to stare back with a smile ,so they could know that your a really happy person who brings a smile to everyone. Like me i am like that i smile to everyone because its something that i do and we should all do. Its better to see more smiling faces then so them all blue. Everyone has a beautiful smile that should be pass on. Its best if we help one another because sometimes people need that little push and they would be thankful for it. A smile can do alot for those in needs it shows them that we care and we will help them become a better person in life. 

 I picked this image because when your happy you smile and think to yourself i love living.

Quote: "Always wear a smile because your smile is the reason for many others to smile :) "

Reflection: I picked this quote because i agree with it because you should pass on a smile to everyone.
                                                     .3 Remember names

1."A man name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language 
2."If you dont remember names , you are headed for trouble"

I think that remembering names is important because then how would you call them if you need something or you want to tell/ask them something. For me i think its easy to remember the names, yet i confuse them but i remember them. When you want to meet someone you need to be polite and kinda introduce yourself in a kind way. This always happens to me when i meet someone new i start a conversation and the when we are saying our goodbyes i ask them whats there name it was nice to meet them. I know it might sound cheesy , but at least i can have a decent conversation. You should always remember there names its also a way of showing that you cared and you want to be friends with them.



I picked this picture because i thought it was funny because eventually once you become really close to them and your calling them and he/she are too far away so you will be yelling there name.

Quote:"forgive your enemies, but never forget there names"

Reflection: I selected this because i agree what President Jon Kennedy

4. Be a good listener encourage others to talk about themselves

1. 'If you aspire to be a good conversationalist, be an attentive listener" 
2. "Remember that man you are talking to is a hundred times more interested in himself and he wants his problems than he is in you and your problems. 

I think that its important to be listening because then it shows that you are caring and it shows how your going to help them out if they have a problem. For instance, say that you barely met someone and your starting to get to know them they start telling you how life its treating them or maybe they want to do something ,but there not sure so thats when you come in and you encourage them. Also, it tells you how the person is because many people listen ,but they interrupt and talk about themselves instead of listening. Others do listen and try to give them feed back and try to inspire them. Thats why its important to be a good listener cause they will respect you and always try to go up to you when they need help.

Quote: "A good listener truly wants to know the speaker"

by: John Powell 

Reflection: I picked this quote because that is true if you want to get to know someone you need to have your ears open. 

5. Talk in terms of the man's interest

1.The royal road to a mans heart is to talk yo him about things he treasures most"
I think that in order for you to get to know a person you need to be interested and really dedicated to that person because it shows how much you be willing to care for them. Because the way i see it if you really want to know that person you will try do everything to get to know what they like, what they dislike, what gets them mad, there favorite food,etc. That's when you'll be very attach to him/her and you will never forget about that person because you spend most of your life with them when you are feeling blue.

Quote: "if you always do what interest you, at least one person is pleased"
Reflection: i agree in this quote because that is true if you want to be interested in someone and you will start getting to know that person then they will be pleased.

6. Make the other person feel important and do it sincerely 

I think that this is very important because if you make a person feel less they would not want to be your friend. Also, its important to be very friendly to the person you want to be friends with and since your barely starting to get to know that person you want a really good first impression. This brings the other tips to make a person like you that you want to meet. For instance, i think for me this 6 rules will help me improve my socializing with others and i know i will gain more trust and make more  friends. Because i like meeting new people and its easy for me to start a conversation. I also like listening to there stories and asking question as well because i like to be very open and try to advice them in whatever i can, because honestly its important to be there for them when they need a shoulder to lean on.

 I picked this picture because everyone is different and the with the help with others you fit right in.
Quote:"Make me feel important"
Reflection: this quote means that a person needs you and they dont want to feel useless

                  Final Reflection: 

Through out this 6 rules i think there important because i think its important to be out there and getting to know new people everyday. However you need to make sure that your being friendly, and a positive person when your talking to them. For instance, being a good listener is a good way of showing that you care and your attentive to what there saying. Also, dont be boring also have a little laugh as you start getting to know them. Another thing i want to add on is to remember there names because intentionally you will forget there names or mess up there name by calling them a different name. Its good if you get interested to them because they know you care about them and they know that your making sure that they matter. For me i think this will be beneficial to help me improve of getting to know someone. It will help me alot because maybe i should take this rules into consideration.